Sep 11 2007
kissing
Ethan came home from kindergarten one day last week and confided in me,
“Mommy, we’re not allowed to kiss other people.”
I thought that over, and how when kids are very young, hugs and kisses are wonderful, of course, but as they get older, they need to learn to respect other people’s personal space. Kindergarten is probably the right time for this sort of rule.. though I do remember the “kissing” games played when I was in K and 1st grades on the playground.
I was thinking all this over and remembering my “first kiss” and my little “boyfriend” from 1st grade as I started telling Ethan how kisses are personal and it’s a good rule because as you get older, some people might not want to be kissed, when Ethan interupted my thoughts.
“But I kiss Jeni sometimes.”
This took me off guard a bit.
“You do?”
“Yes. In the sandbox. Sometimes we get married.”
“You do.”
“Yup.”
James also wrote about these glad tidings over on his blog.
One Response to “kissing”
Allison was on a kick for a while where she thought that if a boy and a girl kissed on the lips they were automatically married.